Friday, February 29, 2008

The beginning of the nightmare ---- JUNE 1996

In June of 1996 a friend of mine introduced me to this guy. At the age of 15 I had no idea what a relationship was and had no business trying to have a relationship. I wanted to act like I was 21 and not listen to anyone. All my family told me that I need to stay as far away as possible from this guy because he was up to no good. My grandparents had issues that his mother was a lesbian and could never get over that and that it was a terrible thing for me to be in a relationship with some woman thats licks vaginas....LOL.. Thats my grandfathers words not mine. Well, I thought this guy whos name is Randy Gene Turner was the best guy on earth...LMAO.. at it now....

In August of 1996 I discovered I was pregnant. It was right around my 16th birthday. I told Randy that I was pregnant and he decided at that time to end the relationship. Real winner right??? Well, I had just found out that I was pregnant and the jackass dumped me so I decided that it was best for my ass to move back to my grandparents in East Texas. So thats exactly what I did. Well, in Decemeber of 1996 I decided that living with my grandparents was not the best option for me and decided that I would move back to my mothers in Arlington Texas and that is exactly what I did. I got enrolled back in school at this school called Venture that they had set up for pregnant teenagers....LMAO ..... In January of 1997 I decided that I would contact Brad who was a mutual friend of mine and Randys and let him know that I was back in town. He said that he wanted to see my pregnant ass and came over. Once again being 16 and stupid!!!!! Well, what did Brad do?? He called Randy and told him that my ass was really pregnant. I am not sure what happened and all the exact details of things that transpired after that because I had some major complications with the pregnancy. It ended up that I got back with Randy and we were going to have this baby and raise this baby together. Well, get this he has now turned 17 and has not told anyone in his family that I am pregnant. If that would have happened when I was older I would have known that it was not Kosher and never invested over 10 years of my life with this evil bastard!!! Well, Feb. 14th 1997 I was admitted into the hospital because of my pregnancy complications and that is when the hell started with his family...LOL.. .My mother decided that it was time for Randy's family to know and contacted his grandparents to let them know what was going on. They were flabbergasted and had no idea that they were about to become great grandparents. Well, that is the day that I meet his gay mother and extended family. I stayed in the hospital until March 10 1997 when Tanner Chase Turner arrived into this world 6 weeks early.

My mother and step fathers house was getting torn down because Arlington Texas wanted to build a golf course on that land and my mother and step father decided that they were going to move to South Texas to start their retirement. That meant because I was a minor that I was going to have to move to South Texas with them. That was not going to happen. No way in hell did I want to move to South Texas. So the only way that I was going to stay was to marry Randy Gene Turner. On May 19 1997 my mother and Randys mother went to the courthouse and signed papers for us to get married. My grandmother paid for the shitty wedding and we were married on May 23rd 1997.


Exactly one month after we were married on June 23rd 1997 Randy Gene Turner beat the living shit out of me at his grandparents home. I will continue with this story when I have more time....TA TA FOR NOW

Welcome to my blog!!!

Welcome to my blog!!!

This is a new account for me and a new adventure. I do own two websites that have blogs attached but they are more personal than I want everyone to know. I have decided that I would set up this blog to let everyone read.

Its going to be a place for me to vent about the physco ex and all of his drama that he causing in my life.

It's going to take a while for me to get the whole story posted and everything explained but I am going to do it as fast as I can.

Please have patience and realize that the marriage took place close to 11 years ago and the divorce happened a little over 3 years ago. It has been somewhat quite with the ex for the last few months. Karma is now coming to kick him in his ass!! The state of texas is after child support and have filed a lawsuit against him. It is nothing that I have filed and it has all been done through the Attorney General in Texas. Thanks to them!! They are going to cause less drama in my life but I know that its going to be ugly until court!!!

I will get this updated as quickly as possible!